Don’t compare your real everyday life with someone else’s highlight reel. That’s good advice I heard once about social media. Facebook, Twitter and Instagram can be comparison traps. What most of us post are the good moments, the vacation photos, the happy birthday group shots, the days off, the kids graduating or performing or doing something cute. We don’t usually post the flat tires, the grumpy days at work, the late payment credit card statements, the cat’s poop on the carpet, or pics of our kids in time-out in tears with angry faces. Continue reading
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Get busy and wait
I’m becoming a waiting pro. I’ve had much experience, especially in the last 3 years of my life: waiting on answers to prayers, waiting on direction, waiting to become more like Jesus (I’m pretty sure that’s gonna last my whole life), waiting to see the plans God has for my daughters. Waiting is a big part of everyday life anyway: waiting at the doctor’s office, standing in line at the grocery, in traffic, on friends who are meeting us for lunch or coffee, for fun holiday family get-togethers, for vacations, on test results, for news from a job interview, for a newborn baby to arrive…it goes on and on.
Since it is such a part of life why do I become irritated when I have to wait? I think partly because it is a time when I have no control over the situation or the outcome. I feel I should be doing something to help the process along, whatever that may be. There are many things I can’t make happen any quicker than they are already happening. It is out of my hands.
I got to see first-hand the beginnings of a house being built on Extreme Makeover Home Edition this week. Continue reading
