If I want my doctor to help me with something, I have to tell her what’s wrong. I have to reveal things about myself that might not be so pretty. If I want a counselor to assist me in regaining wholeness, I have to be gut honest about myself, my family, my past, whatever, in order for him/her to get to the root of the problem and show me how to resolve it. Without a willingness to be fully open or totally honest, I’ll just be getting band-aid solutions that don’t fully get rid of the real problem. The symptoms might go away for a while but they’ll be back, and maybe even more ferociously than before.
It’s not easy. Probably the biggest obstacle is my pride. Why would I want to show someone else something ugly or flawed about myself? How embarrassing. What will they think? How will I feel about myself? Who wants to admit a glaring weakness to someone else and show that I don’t have it all together? I might even appear hypocritical.
This weekend our church is a part of a consultation to help us evaluate ourselves and grow. One step toward growth, integrity, and becoming more like Jesus is being willing to see truthfully who we are and/or what we have become, admit it is true and be ready to submit to God’s molding, reshaping, and pruning. It’s as if He’s holding up his big supernatural mirror and we’re seeing the big picture like we haven’t before. John and I met with the consultation team last night. Before we went in I felt a little like I did back in school days thinking I had to see the principal. Continue reading
